What is it about relationships?
No matter how hard a brother try we always end up fighting the fact that women are just looking to change you. Growing up with a house full of women did help me understand them to a degree. Although love plays a part in wanting to make it right, I find it to be a bit lopsided that we have to be the ones to conform to all the little rules.
This issue has to be addressed; you wonder how we should go about doing it?
Well:
#1 Confront with some rules of your own, but dont be as unreasonable as she usually is.
#2 Take time to compromise her wishes by not giving up but giving in basically. This may sound strange, but this will work.
#3 Make sure you become attentive and distract her with just being a man that loves his woman, she enjoys a man that doesn't need to be told what to do.
Relationships can be complicated and at times inconceivable. They can be enlightened by laughing and talking and not thinking sex is the fixer of all confusion. When you begin to equate sex with love that's when it becomes a danger. What you build outside of the bedroom is what making love special.
So just remember to take time to learn someone before you think you found the right one.
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